Living around with lots of different peoples is very challenging. There's a twisted fate in every human where they won't find a perfect place to live just by themselves. Human can't live alone, so they had to confront different types of peoples, live in diversity and blend with the community.
So, which types do you like? Loving, kind, helpful and lots more. To list it down with lots of 'flowers' and 'love heart' is too rhetoric. I wouldn't mind if you want to, but it isn't easy.
For me, instead of reminding myself to search those types of people, I prefer to avoid these types of people.
- Stupid : They're so
cleverin making decision. They don't even care of other's feeling, thoughts, ideas and as much as I concern, they're selfish. - Badass : Taking credits of other's works. Easy life eh?
- Killing machine : They use you when they need you. Well of course, when you're nothing, then you're no use to them. Goodbye then.
- Monkey : They're differences between annoying among friends and annoying in the middle of wanders. Don't agree or understand? Try to see monkey among themselves and then get one monkey among human.
- Hantu : Anything you don't like. You define it yourself.
Why do I choose to avoid instead of searching good qualities? You may call me pessimist but please remember this idiom,
"Prevention is better than cure."People goof around being to defenseless, being too optimist, hoping for the one to be as good as they expected. When the 'expected' are not as good as what they expect, they'll start to throw a tantrum, mad, angry, and unsatisfied with that particular person.
What I propose, is a new way where you expect, evaluate then you accept. Instead of accepting someone blindly, be prepared for any unwanted bad qualities. You may do the same thing to me cause I can't guarantee what qualities are with me. That's why preparation is needed. Instead of blaming for choosing the wrong person, be defensive. Just for your own good. : )
